Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Ten more days

Leaving for Korea in ten days?!

This feeling of "excitement-anxiety-doom-intellectual curiosity-leaving the pond-I'm going to take over S. Korea" has grown ever stronger.

I have packed everything. Well, not everything I own but a little bit of everything that I have used for the past three years.  I have managed to pack ten pairs of shoes, undies, three suits, countless dresses and skirts and my favorite T-shirts. I have also thought to bring art supplies and school supplies.  I also wrapped my favorite kitchen utensils and handmade ceramic plates. Do I really need to bring a box of pens? I know I can get everything there or mailed to me with an order from the Internet. So why the need to over-pack? 

I am trying to spend every minute with friends.  Any reason for me to hang out and just be around them I have enjoyed and can't believe how lucky/blessed I am to have such awesome friends.  They all can't wait for me to leave but hate the idea of me not being home.  I have invited everyone to Korea and hope at least three of my friends can make it out for a quick visit.

Family time has been harder to manage- Dad and brother out to sea, other brother spending time with a girlfriend that goes to school overseas, and a mom with health issues, ready for a career change.  I did get some time to see my NYC family and I will eventually make it to see family in NC.  For as much as I can't stand being around my mom at times, I want her move in with me or at least visit me often staying for a couple weeks. 

My biggest worries 
  • not being around my heart, friends and family
  • not having enough money
  • not passing the drug test in Korea
  • not learning enough Korean
  • not  having what I need to live in Korea
  • not having my guy around
How I have managed to deal with these issues
  • getting a Google number
  • figuring out how to use my phone, Skype and other technologies
  • asking money from family
  • not taking any meds for the next two weeks (which then creates more anxiety in my life)
  • overdosing on the amount of time a spend with friends
  • knowing that if it meant to be, he will visit in Korea and/or be ready for open arms when I come back
  • just praying that Korean will just pop in my brain and reveal to me that I am a genius or I lived knowing Korean in a past life
  • packing and unpacking and repacking 
  • YOGA
What I am so excited about living in Korea
  • eating great food
  • being in a beautiful country
  • learning how to speak Korean
  • learning about the education system(s)
  • technology 
  • saving up money
  • being on my own
  • meeting new people
  • being close to the Philippines
What I'll be doing in the next ten days
  • partying with friends on the beach and get-togethers at their houses
  • learning Korean 
  • finishing my on-line orientation class
  • making a list

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